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Day 20 - Important Realizations
Day 20 postpartum: realizing my continued bleeding is tied to doing too much, noticing Little M’s evening fussiness as a response to daytime overstimulation, adjusting our rhythms to honour the first 40 days more intentionally, organizing neglected corners of the house, easing back into small tasks, nourishing with warm foods and pomegranate extract, filming a bedside cart tour, and navigating my first solo stretch with both kids.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 128 min read


Day 19 - Being better parents & probiotics
Day 19 postpartum: adjusting supplements after finishing a targeted probiotic for Strep B, feeling surprisingly mobile compared to my first recovery, testing the Ergo Embrace for newborn wearing, navigating long bleeding and a resolving clogged duct, practicing outings with two kids, and reflecting honestly on the emotional stretch of parenting two while staying anchored in gentle parenting values.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 105 min read


Day 18 - Environmental Changes
Day 18 postpartum: navigating environmental resets before losing extra hands, troubleshooting a deep clogged duct, adjusting bleeding care, weaving in mineral-rich nourishment, and relearning the dance of eating warm meals while holding a newborn — all while decluttering, reorganizing, and reflecting on how two kids reshape daily life.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 105 min read


Day 17 - A walk in the park
A gentle postpartum reflection on slow winter days, support, healing, navigating two children, and finding presence and intention in the early weeks after birth.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 85 min read


Day 16 - Family feels & changes
A raw and honest reflection on early postpartum life, family dynamics, and intentional motherhood—embracing big feelings, healing, support, and the meaningful shifts that shape the first 40 days.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 86 min read


Day 15 - First trip out the house
A heartfelt look at our first trip out of the house at two weeks postpartum—navigating newborn coughs, toddler emotions, and the many “firsts” that come with leaving the cocoon. Reflections on gentle midwife care, asking for help, nourishing postpartum rhythms, and finding our way as a family of four.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 65 min read


Day 14 - Calling reinforcements
A gentle postpartum reflection on learning to ask for help, supporting two little ones through their first colds, and staying grounded in nourishment and rest. A look at day‑14 rhythms, the emotional work of accepting support, and the small moments that make early postpartum feel held rather than overwhelming.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 62 min read


Day 13 - Will anything fit & a Postpartum Care Session
A tender postpartum journal of settling into life with two little ones, navigating body changes, early routines, and the deep support of an in‑home postpartum care session with Vivara. Reflections on nursing, gentle therapies, newborn care, and the evolving family rhythms that make this season both vulnerable and beautiful.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 56 min read


Day 12 - "Is my baby healthy?"
A tender postpartum reflection on newborn congestion, early‑days worry, and navigating the line between normal mom concerns and anxiety. Sharing our family’s current health updates, the comfort of in‑home postpartum nursing support, and the small daily moments that make recovery feel held and supported.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 43 min read


Day 11 - Alone time & Coffee
Postpartum Day 11 recap: coffee returns, light bleeding, hemorrhoid care, Epsom baths, co‑sleeping, and settling into a calmer family rhythm.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 25 min read


Day 10 - BIG changes
A joyful Day 10 postpartum update—first trips downstairs, babywearing, winter sunshine, handmade gifts, supportive visits, and the tender balance of healing while slowly re‑entering family life. A real look at postpartum shifts, community, creativity, and the physical realities of recovery.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 14 min read


Day 9 - Sadness, Trapped & Isolated
A raw and heartfelt postpartum reflection on emotional shifts, relationship challenges, vulnerability, support, and the complex transition to life with two little ones. A gentle reminder that motherhood includes tears, growth, interdependence, and the courage to feel it all.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 18 min read


Day 8 - Transition to change
A gentle Day 8 postpartum reflection on healing, slow self‑care, EC refreshers, nourishing foods, bodily changes, and our final midwife home visit. Noticing energy returning, tiny shifts toward normal, and the tender balance of caring for a newborn while easing into life with two littles.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 13 min read


Day 7 - No more underwear! And why no coffee (yet).
A warm, honest look at my first week postpartum—healing rhythms, gentle routines, pro‑metabolic nourishment, newborn care, EC, diapering, digestion support, and finding connection with my toddler. A real‑life glimpse into slow living, hormone‑supportive choices, and the tender early days with baby M.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 298 min read


Day 6 - Night sweats and warmer weather
A gentle look at Day 6 postpartum with baby M—night sweats, Chinook headaches, breastfeeding rhythms, nourishing foods, supplements, and our early Elimination Communication journey. A cozy, honest glimpse into newborn days, family rhythms, and postpartum recovery.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 286 min read


Day 5 - A whole lot of changes
Day 5 postpartum: managing engorgement, supporting digestion, newborn diaper challenges, nourishing foods, and easing into a more predictable rhythm.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 286 min read


Day 4 - In Pain & Grumpy
Postpartum Day 4 recap: breast engorgement, latch challenges, warm compresses, cloth diapering, nourishing foods, and settling into newborn rhythms.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 2610 min read


Day 3 - Wet Day
Day 3 postpartum: milk coming in, big emotions, newborn sensitivity, nourishing foods, and finding gentle rhythms in the First 40 Days.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 255 min read


Day 2 - I feel fantastic, but...
A gentle look at Day 2 of postpartum healing—rest, sensitivity, nourishment, and learning to slow down while caring for a newborn and myself.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 256 min read


Day 1 - The village in our home
A tender look at Day 1 of our First 40 Days—honouring birth, deep postpartum support, nourishment, rest, and the sacred transition into motherhood again.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 246 min read
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