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Day 26 - I cut my hair & sleep
Day 26 postpartum: reflecting on cosleeping and realistic sleep expectations, balancing rest with “doing,” staying healthy on a budget, sewing more footless sleepers, cutting my hair for practicality, and navigating the sweetness and challenges of a toddler who wants to touch the baby all day.
Carmen Fourie
1 day ago8 min read


Day 25 - Food & Intimacy talk
Day 25 postpartum: a Sunday of big food prep, daily broth, custard and meringues, a digestion setback, bleeding triggered by too much movement, honest reflections on intimacy and libido, Aware Parenting insights, and the joy of sewing footless sleepers while Elba creates her own “patterns” beside me.
Carmen Fourie
2 days ago9 min read


Day 24 - Cutting up Marshall's clothes & the Best Gift
Day 24 postpartum: settling into life with two, navigating the emotional stretch of hands‑on parenting, reflecting on perfectionism and presence, celebrating Valentine’s Day with a meaningful family book, enjoying a surprisingly delicious lamb soup, converting footed sleepers into footless ones for safe babywearing, and continuing to learn who Little M is as EC, sleep, and daily rhythms take shape.
Carmen Fourie
3 days ago6 min read


Day 23 - Bringing flour back & Updates
Day 23 postpartum: reflecting on how my first 40 days shaped this recovery, easing digestion with warm foods before reintroducing flour, enjoying sourdough bagels and homemade shortbread, celebrating healing wins from moving less and reducing stimulus for Little M, navigating lumpy breasts and low sleep, living in PJs, adjusting our long evening routine, soaking up family time and toddler board‑game phases, and thinking ahead to screen‑free days with two kids as winter return
Carmen Fourie
4 days ago8 min read


Day 22 - What my belly looks like
Day 22 postpartum reflections on newborn contact naps, toddler big feelings, support from friends, home organization progress, breastfeeding rhythms, and real postpartum body changes.
Carmen Fourie
5 days ago5 min read


Day 21 - Doing the things I said
Day 21 — the tenderness with Elba, the shift toward moving less, the home‑organization mindset, the first playdate with two kids, the bedtime routine reflections, the nourishment, and the sweetness of Little M’s first real smile. It’s specific, grounded, and true to the rhythm of your day.
Carmen Fourie
6 days ago4 min read


Day 20 - Important Realizations
Day 20 postpartum: realizing my continued bleeding is tied to doing too much, noticing Little M’s evening fussiness as a response to daytime overstimulation, adjusting our rhythms to honour the first 40 days more intentionally, organizing neglected corners of the house, easing back into small tasks, nourishing with warm foods and pomegranate extract, filming a bedside cart tour, and navigating my first solo stretch with both kids.
Carmen Fourie
6 days ago8 min read


Day 19 - Being better parents & probiotics
Day 19 postpartum: adjusting supplements after finishing a targeted probiotic for Strep B, feeling surprisingly mobile compared to my first recovery, testing the Ergo Embrace for newborn wearing, navigating long bleeding and a resolving clogged duct, practicing outings with two kids, and reflecting honestly on the emotional stretch of parenting two while staying anchored in gentle parenting values.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 105 min read


Day 18 - Environmental Changes
Day 18 postpartum: navigating environmental resets before losing extra hands, troubleshooting a deep clogged duct, adjusting bleeding care, weaving in mineral-rich nourishment, and relearning the dance of eating warm meals while holding a newborn — all while decluttering, reorganizing, and reflecting on how two kids reshape daily life.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 105 min read


Day 17 - A walk in the park
A gentle postpartum reflection on slow winter days, support, healing, navigating two children, and finding presence and intention in the early weeks after birth.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 85 min read


Day 16 - Family feels & changes
A raw and honest reflection on early postpartum life, family dynamics, and intentional motherhood—embracing big feelings, healing, support, and the meaningful shifts that shape the first 40 days.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 86 min read


Day 15 - First trip out the house
A heartfelt look at our first trip out of the house at two weeks postpartum—navigating newborn coughs, toddler emotions, and the many “firsts” that come with leaving the cocoon. Reflections on gentle midwife care, asking for help, nourishing postpartum rhythms, and finding our way as a family of four.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 65 min read


Day 14 - Calling reinforcements
A gentle postpartum reflection on learning to ask for help, supporting two little ones through their first colds, and staying grounded in nourishment and rest. A look at day‑14 rhythms, the emotional work of accepting support, and the small moments that make early postpartum feel held rather than overwhelming.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 62 min read


Day 13 - Will anything fit & a Postpartum Care Session
A tender postpartum journal of settling into life with two little ones, navigating body changes, early routines, and the deep support of an in‑home postpartum care session with Vivara. Reflections on nursing, gentle therapies, newborn care, and the evolving family rhythms that make this season both vulnerable and beautiful.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 56 min read


Day 12 - "Is my baby healthy?"
A tender postpartum reflection on newborn congestion, early‑days worry, and navigating the line between normal mom concerns and anxiety. Sharing our family’s current health updates, the comfort of in‑home postpartum nursing support, and the small daily moments that make recovery feel held and supported.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 43 min read


Day 11 - Alone time & Coffee
Postpartum Day 11 recap: coffee returns, light bleeding, hemorrhoid care, Epsom baths, co‑sleeping, and settling into a calmer family rhythm.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 25 min read


Day 10 - BIG changes
A joyful Day 10 postpartum update—first trips downstairs, babywearing, winter sunshine, handmade gifts, supportive visits, and the tender balance of healing while slowly re‑entering family life. A real look at postpartum shifts, community, creativity, and the physical realities of recovery.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 14 min read


Day 9 - Sadness, Trapped & Isolated
A raw and heartfelt postpartum reflection on emotional shifts, relationship challenges, vulnerability, support, and the complex transition to life with two little ones. A gentle reminder that motherhood includes tears, growth, interdependence, and the courage to feel it all.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 18 min read


Day 8 - Transition to change
A gentle Day 8 postpartum reflection on healing, slow self‑care, EC refreshers, nourishing foods, bodily changes, and our final midwife home visit. Noticing energy returning, tiny shifts toward normal, and the tender balance of caring for a newborn while easing into life with two littles.
Carmen Fourie
Feb 13 min read


Day 7 - No more underwear! And why no coffee (yet).
A warm, honest look at my first week postpartum—healing rhythms, gentle routines, pro‑metabolic nourishment, newborn care, EC, diapering, digestion support, and finding connection with my toddler. A real‑life glimpse into slow living, hormone‑supportive choices, and the tender early days with baby M.
Carmen Fourie
Jan 298 min read
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